"I wish I am just a small bird that all it has to do is chirping and flying.."
"I wish I wasn't born in this era.."
"I wish I can stay a child all my life therefore my biggest worry would be my school books.."

Yeah.. That's right.. We all thought about this from time to time.. Don't deny it..

It is not easy to be human..

It is not easy at all..

Actually.. It is exhausting to be human..

And sometimes, it is just a nightmare..

Being human is a HUGE responsibility.. Not everyone is ready to bear it..

This huge responsibility is carried on our shoulders all the time.. 24/7.. Whether we like it or not..

Some of us can feel it, others just ignore it.. And most of us DOESN'T KNOW ABOUT IT!

"I am still young.. "
"I still have the chance.. so it is not urgent thing to think about"
"I am not ready yet.."
This is what we keep saying.. right?

Ahhh.. It is not easy.. It is painful.. and even when we ignore this responsibility, or when we don't know about it, it keeps hurting us..

We try to escape and live in peace with no tiny worry.. But later, we got hurt very badly.. And we don't know how this happen..

It is not just about responsibility.. Being human is dealing with everything you can imagine.. And the worst part of it that we have a HEART..
Without this heart, we can be like vehicles.. We have some duties to do.. And when we do them, we are done and our mission would be accomplished..

But having a heart, having different feelings, tastes and opinions creates countless possibilities.. Which creates countless complications..

Being human is a limitation.. It defines the limits of our freedom.. BUT.. BUT.. BUT..

It is also the freedom itself..

How??

This is what I call: the harmony is in contrast..

As much as you have darkness, this means you have the same amount of joy.. And vice versa..

I am not optimistic nor pessimistic.. Because it is a harmony and equilibrium that rules our lives..

The more we become responsible, the more joy we will gain, and the more pain we will gain too..
Why? Because the more we are responsible, the more possibilities we have, and the more joy and pain we have too..

But.. It worth it..

It is great feeling to experience how strong we are among challenges, and how weak we are among them too..

And the main goal, is to live as responsible; To be aware of our freedom and limitations, of our strength and weakness, of our wisdom and ignorance..

The goal is to experience the new possibilities we have due to the multiple combinations of different feelings, tastes and opinions we have..

The meaning of being human is in the journey that leads to the goal, as much as in the goal itself..
So..
Know that you are HUMAN..
Know that it is a blessing and a curse at the same time.. And that the SUM of actions of your whole life will define whether your humanity was a blessing or a curse for you and others..
Know that you must experience new responsibilities
Know that you should be grateful for every bad or good experience you had and will have..

Being human means countless responsibilities, countless possibilities, countless feelings, countless tastes, countless opinions, countless complications, limitation and freedom, in other words, all the contrasts in the world..

As humans we must find the harmony that rules all this contrast to be able to achieve the final goal..

Trust yourself, Love yourself: You Are HUMAN